看化吧～

你还记得24岁的时候，你做了些什么吗？

我刚毕业，找工作，遇到无数的有色眼光，不凡的拒绝，想结婚生孩子，却没成。你呢？他却为了上司的辱骂而轻生了。（槟城28/11/13工程师坠楼）

这篇blog不是要指谁对谁错，谁厉害与否；而是要分享如何面对人生。

人活了怎么多年，没必要择着了。

踏入社会，你不是只有和父母或与兄弟姐妹在一起的环境了；而是与各式各样，莫名其妙的人在一起。“笼子大了，什么鸟都有。” 以前，你哭，爸爸或妈妈就会哄你；在职场，你还可以用同一招吗？学习长大才帮得了你自己走出这种状况。

给自己压力，适量是好的，但过度就会消极化。本人识压力为动力，但压力已经不再是我自己自造的了。我认为没必要了。因为在职场上，人人会无形中很乐意的给你加添压力。如果你不懂得解压，就完了。"Expect the unexpected, learn to love it."

新新人类，大多数都瞧不起某某人，擦鞋，甚至玩政治。本人也不赞同的。职场，是mobile home；不是战场。你玩得起得话，恭喜你；玩不起的，那就sayonara... Sayonara后也不会有人念你从前的好，因为怎样都有人代替你；公司不会因为你而关闭。职场是你经营人生的下一个30～40年，是你的社会大学，是你真正能够表演、贡献的时候。顾虑不了谁的鞋好不好擦，还是管好自己吧～

自己的人生，自己主宰。别让他人谋杀你的人生。世界在怎么科技化，也不代表人就可以这么“科学”。

“年轻工程师，希望那是你对的选择，一路好走。”

New Mantra of the Day

When nothing goes right, go left... =D

疯狂的事

你曾经疯狂过吗？做过疯狂的事吗？还是每天都是过着一般的日子呢?
有没有为身旁的人疯狂过? 为他/她做过疯狂的事呢？

看看戏剧或电影中的某病人, 尤其是那快要死的. 往往他们会选择放弃花时间、金钱医病, 反而想花多一点时间去做自己以前想做却不敢做的事, 或陪伴忽略已久的家人好友。
这些病人的last minute moves是我们应该趁还有机会就该行动的。
我们可能身体强壮，“来日方长”就成了口头禅...
何不把每一天当成是生命中的最后一天来看待呢?
这样人才会十分重视活着的那一天。因为下一秒钟可能不再有机会做你要做的事, 说你要说的话了...

好让你或他人都留下可爱的回忆。


而我......
我过着被他嫌“神经病"的生活。

e.g.:
      吃饭的时候......
他:（鱼背)上面是你的。 我要反下面的肉了。
我: 你不可以“挖”给我的么？
他:（夹鱼肉)开嘴巴。
我: 我没叫你喂我啊，可以放在一旁嘛。嗯~ （伸舌头, 有鱼骨）
他:（帮我从舌头上捡走鱼骨）
我: 我也要。

趁他没发现…
我:（急忙翻舌头，搜...... ）^^
他: 喂~ 神经病。

Continue the Planting =P

Continue last topic... Failed. =S

Only 4 survives. The rest broken into halves.

~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~. ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~ . ~

So, I made up my mind to change the subject to red onion.
It grows quite fast. Most importantly is less observation and care needed.
After a week, when you see the "leaves" turn to yellowish at the edge, then it's time to harvest. Just cut the "leaves" will do, then it will continue to grow another batch of green onions. ^^
You can cook chopped green onions eggs, spread on soup or any meal you like. Uh...yummy yum... =)

Little Planting

Starting to do some planting these few days because of a friend's influence. Thanks to her, I recall some interesting memories that I had, spending most of my childhood before kindy, under rambutan tree, playing muds, mixing soil, plant sidewalk flowers and etc... yea, I'm a hometown girl.

I started with the most easiest plant, bean sprout, which I believe most of us did plant with mung bean during our kindy or primary school.

I bought a packing of soybeans. Of course, you also can choose mung beans or black soybeans. Rinse some beans in a container for 8 - 10 hours. Must wash up the beans thoroughly before pouring in a ready hole-drilled container. Then cover the container with black plastic bag and put aside at a cooling place, which is not expose to sunlight direct. Must rinse the beans quite often 5 - 6 times, so that they do not stink.

You can see there are some beans start sprouting. Well, keep it up till Day 5 then it shall be ready for harvest. =) Till then, I'll keep updating. 

Snoopy

Marcie, Peppermint Patty, Charlie Brown, Lucy, Linus, Woodstock
Franklin, Sally Brown, Schroeder, Snoopy, Pigpen

Yea~ Snoopy! Actually I'm not a big fan of Snoopy and gang, but I do like them, and never really know them. They are adorable, aren't they?

"Snoopy’s whole personality is a little bittersweet. But he’s a very strong character. He can win or lose, be a disaster, a hero, or anything, and yet it all works out. I like the fact that when he’s in real trouble, he can retreat into a fantasy and thereby escape."

Charles M. Schulz on Snoopy

I fell in love with it just because of the Snoopy's fair on iPhone. Then I started to look for Snoopy's short clips, to know and understand the story line and their special characters i.e. kite eating tree.

Marbles, Olaf, Molly, Andy
Snoopy, Spike, Rover, Belle.

Snoopy is one of the 8 beagle doggies, borne of Baxter and Missy. He has 7 siblings, 5 brothers and 2 sisters.

Marbles: plays banjo, a spotted beagle who is known as the smartest brother of Snoopy that wear shoes.
Olaf: plays jug, an overweight Snoopy that wear a hunting cap.
Molly: plays mandolin, a dog with makeup.
Andy: plays a full set of drum, he is rather clumsy when carrying it and drops it from time to time.
Snoopy: plays guitar but jaw harp when solo.
Spike: plays violin, sleepy face and lives in  in a desert outside Needles, California.
Rover: plays dobro(steel guitar).
Belle: plays violin, lives in Kansas City, Missouri. Snoopy's twin sister with long eyelashes and wears lace collar or pearl necklace. She has teenage son Harris, who looks more like the Pink Panther.

Belle and her unnamed teenage son

Titanic 泰坦尼克号

Titanic, 是我第一部看的电影。很兴奋，很好奇，很浪漫，很惊吓，也很感动…… 结局怎么是这样啊？不甘心， Jack这么cute~这样就死了啊？ 回家，找找质料，原来它是真的发生过的。但不知道，到底有没有Jack and Rose的存在。不管啦~ 总之，值得看， 之后还看了很多很多很多遍。=P

上个周末，TV2电视台播放Titanic嘞~  当然又看咯，不过没法看完啦 （因为有人不喜欢哦~所以总是要转台，到后面撞冰山才牢牢地看完）。过后想起它是我15年前首部看的电影，隔了这么多年，科技发达方便了，应该会有更多关于它的质料。于是就找找看Titanic除了爱情以外的故事。

Titanic的姐妹船Olympic造得跟它很像。Titanic比Olympic大一些。

姐妹船Olympic的安全系统为两个仓库装满水都还能行走；航行时曾经发生事故破了一个比两个人还要高的大洞都还survive呢。而Titanic则可承受四个仓库装满水都不沉没。所以当年是practically unsinkable的；船家说“就算航到上帝再来，它都还可以航行“，还说“连上帝也无法弄沉它”。

制造它的时候发生了许多的争论离职，工地牺牲，罢工等等。但是它还是风雨无阻的建好了。建造5年之长的时间，却不到3个小时就躺在海底的“永不沉没之船”，真是名副其实的“实”沉大海啊。

2223名乘客，706个生还者。其中有8个Asian：2个因为躲在救生艇下超重被压死了；6个因为美国当时有排华计划，所以禁止他们入境，继续他们的旅途去古巴，之后就音讯全无。（中国报章声称他们8人是国耻。=.=***）还有!!! 9只上船的狗，3只获救（2 Pomeranians & 1 Pekinese）。

2012年~ 一百年纪念…… 有好多官方举行各式各样的追悼会。有的行走Titanic的航程去到发生事故地点，有的做Titanic纪录篇，有的就复制Titanic“二世”。

对！就是他，Australian mining magnate Clive Palmer。他和中国的中外运长航集团船舶重工总公司Jinling Shipyard合作制造同款的Titanic， 但装有现代的设施，电视、无线网、冷气…… 很多人议论着想当年很多人因为相信永不沉没之船Titanic，上船（有的特地转船）而丧命；这耗资AUD1.6 billion Made in China的Titanic II安全吗？（因为Made in China 的quality是全世界都懂的。）
2016开航的它，会不会真的像传闻的Titanic被诅咒了呢？

寄信记~

女：那~ 帮我寄。
男：哦！
女：不要用POS啊~ 用courier。
男：OK！

寄的时候~
男：我去POS Office, 那个人说要用普通信封才行。
女：你去POS Office 做么？!!!!!!
男：寄POS Laju 嘛。
女：@.@ ***

Legendary Mermaid(s)

There are many "unreal" creatures that we learned from cartoons and TV... Aliens, mermaids, unicorns, dragons, dinosaur, blah~ blah~ blah~ Actually I do believe these creatures are exist(ed). And there are quite a numbers of evidence yet no proof on them. But I definitely not believing on the "stories" of human evolved from other mammals.

There are many evidence showing Mermaids are not one of the kind creatures who are so pretty and sang to sailors and melt their hearts. However, they are inhuman and cold-hearted creatures. Their spears are found on sides of deep blue sea fishes caught by fishermen. They fishing on shores, sighted by human beings... They  were even found on the beach and shore.

[For more interesting information, you can logon to Animal Discovery or Animal Planet.][And denials from the authorities on news.]

Mermaid found in Teluk Bahang, Penang, Malaysia on Dec. 2007.

80后

80后又称八零后。
他们有着很强及持续无止境的叛逆期，所以在很多工作领域都被视为叛逆群。就算是无法成为领导者，也要做个有个性的员工。

他们拥有超乎想像的自我、自豪、很有个性和思想、也善于接受新事物，带有朋克精神。因为他们是那群从小经历了律法改革、生活成长、社会及文化发展问题，所长大的一群。

[心声如下]

“当我们读小学的时候，读大学不用钱；
当我们读大学的时候，读小学不用钱；
我们还没能工作的时候，工作是被分配的；
我们可以工作的时候，撞得头破血流才勉强找份饿不死人的工作做；
当我们不能挣钱的时候，房子是被分配的.
当我们能挣钱的时候，却发现房子已经买不起了；
当我们没有进入股市的时候,傻瓜都在赚钱；
当我们兴冲冲地闯进去的时候, 才发现自己成了傻瓜也进入不了。”

大选之前...之后...

大选前，有大型聚会。虽然人民被狗政射水及吹擂弹，大家都分分地赶紧离开现场，但都不会因为鸡飞狗跳而发生人踩人的情况。感谢主！大家还会出手协助大家。很值得大家学习及倾佩的好榜样。

大选后，因为狗政舞弊，民联歇心集会。全球各地，有大马人的地方，又聚集在一起，同心祷告，无声抗议狗政的不公。赞！

续大选！

终于诞生时，是男的。孩子的妈明明很清楚听见护士说是个男的。
但医生还没来得及亲自宣布生男或是女的时候，突然停电了。
电恢复后，再看看BB状况，咦〜被偷龙转凤了！

虫!

Larva~

它是韩国毛毛虫, 虽然2011年就"诞生"了. 但是2013年第二集airing的时候, 才发到这里. 因此在本地才刚刚夯过一时.
顾名思义, 虫是主角. 这部shortclip诉说人生在世的喜怒哀乐. 很多无法设想得到事情都可能发生... 只要活在当下, 就可以很奇妙地解决困难.
享受它带来莫名的快乐, 或者说是笑话从前吧... =)



大选? 换政府?

最近, 大选是到处都有人在谈的话题...

可爱的是, 有人把它当成是宝宝. 不知道会是生男, 还是生女啊... 肯定的是, 不会生龙凤胎, 嘻嘻... 废话! 那当然... 虽然看起来, 很多人已经受骗上当了5年又5年, 他们不一定就开始不投那欺骗他的政府了. 人就是神奇, 该放弃的, 不放弃; 不该放弃的, 偏偏就放弃... @.@

有的就说是宿便, 累积好久好久的宿便. 首相一直一再二再的延迟国会, 不要解散. 终于在4月3日解散. 这累积好久好久的宿便终于拉出来了. 但是健康状况还有待大夫诊断. =D

人生有几个5年? 换一换吧...

树木和斧头

照着我所切慕、所盼望的，没有一事叫我羞愧。只要凡事放胆，无论是生是死，总叫基督在我身上照常显大。（腓1：20）

一位伐木工人走进树林，要求树木分給他一些，做斧头的柄。树木答应了，就给他一棵小树。
那人用小树做了一个斧头柄，配置斧头头，开始使用新的斧头寻树、迅速地砍倒了几棵最高贵的大树。
一棵老树哀悼着同伴的毁灭，可是后悔也来不及了。
它对身旁的一棵柏树说：＂没想到他竟然能用一棵小树把我们全断送了。＂

默想：
1.有信心的人，能在最恶劣的环境里看到机会。他能善用周围任何最小的东西来影响四周。
2.做大事的机会并不多，但小事却天天出现。若我们能善用每天上帝给我们的机会完成小事，就是最讨上帝喜悦了。
3.在上帝的大天地里贡献最大的人，是在自己小天地里作忠心的人。

祈祷：主啊，我愿忠心完成每天祢托付给我的小事。谢谢祢透过许多小事塑造我成为祢所喜悦的人。

灵历箴言：应当忠心事奉上帝来渡余下的光阴，天天以上帝的事为念，作成祂的工。

决定

当一个人的决定能深深地影响你的时候，这个决定就试探着你如何接受对方。

奇妙的感觉

再多的不满与不兴，也可以轻易的被一个小小的感恩感化了

A Big Step

Because of his company trip, then only he wants to travel with me. SHT! Nevermind~ The first country is to Bangkok. A totally foreign language country. We did manage our trip. Well done. So I'm expecting we can go further. Shouldn't be any excuses anymore.

Bangkok is both heaven and hell. There are world of branded products... And also world of where you can find all kinds of pirated things, which some may not even manufactured by the original, and they are good.

There are many weird stuffs that I never see and thought of, but there all in Bangkok. The "boys" are so beautiful... Their fashion is so unique that there must be a design of an "exposure" at a part of the clothes.

But the train station, airport and custom staffs are impolite and hardly communicate in simple English.

Overall the trip is just okay, not very pleasant. So luckily it was just a short 3 days 2 nights visit.

An Unexpected Invitation

Yep~ It has been a while since last logon to blogger.

So... a friend is getting married soon, in this May. To be exact, a not-so-closed old school mate is getting married, and I have been invited.

This is the very first time that I'm invited to attend a wedding dinner from a friend. Of cause I have been invited to attend to a wedding before, but that's my cousin's, I represented my family, and Mum said no giving angpao because I'm not married. So, I bought a gift. But this is a friend. I have no idea what to do next. Give money? Buy a gift? Give vouchers? What should I do? I consulted some closer friends. The suggestions are to give angpao because it saves time from shopping and easier, or vouchers, which I thought of.

According to experienced people, giving angpao for wedding needs some rules so that giver and receiver will be pleased. =.=

Big angpao is for closer family or friends, or just to "buy" "face" in case would to be invited. However, smaller angpao is for just not-so-closed friends or to "pay" for a "meal" in the wedding.

And most surprisingly, there is a hilarious practice that, some local people is so kiasu till they call up the restaurant of the wedding, to get to know how much is the package for dinner. So that, they will not give too much for the couples, for less luxurious restaurant and food. SHIT! Locally, "CELAKA!". Yes, indeed they are.

Come on... this is so disappointing. Wedding has become a business. Couples who get married no longer mean to share their happiness, but to market their wedding. That's what exactly shown in the movie of Ah Niu in "The Wedding Diary". I'm not advertising movie, but the truth is shown in the movie, now I finally understood.

Wedding is supposed to be happy for the newly-wed couple, not for earning extra angpao purposes. I thought so~

2013年了...

我很喜欢这首歌，每次听到都很感动。

感谢上帝奇妙的“爱”！

2013 New Year Resolution =)

Top priority!!!!
1) Sleep at 10.00A.M., wake up at 8:45P.M.